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<td width="352"><strong>標題 :</strong> 妳的性愛，由嘴開始</td>
<td width="160"><strong>作者 :</strong> 煒煒</td>
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<td colspan="2"><strong>上載日期 :</strong> 01Sept 05</td>
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<p><font size="+1">嘴，在女女性愛中有著不可取代的超然地位。 </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">性愛中用嘴進行的一大重要招式，就是交談。這些交談，在埋身肉搏之前就要開始了。 </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">交談可增加大家的了解，不論對於 ICQ 中找 ONS 對手，還是打算發展長遠關係的情侶，都同樣重要。將自己喜歡的性愛感覺說出來，可減少不快性愛、被錯誤對待等的掃興情況發生。例如一個漂亮可愛的斯文
G，原來是十分渴望發掘 B 的身體的，若是她遇上了死也不給碰的 B，在這情況下，小則破壞大家一晚的興致，甚至有可能不歡而散。 </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">要將性愛的喜惡說出來，第一大原因是這是不能從外表看出來的。例如典型化的 B上G下、G定0號、B定是1號、pure便是10號，在實際運作中並不是常常都行得通的，女女的性愛並沒有固定的模式。還有，不要當女朋友們都有未卜先知的能力，如果妳心裡想她給妳來個性感的按摩，妳不說出口的話，她可能一輩子也猜不到的。即使在交談中發現大家的喜好並不完全吻合，至少也可以考慮考慮，這樣的調整配合大家能不能接受。 </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">與真正的性愛一樣，交談間的氣氛很重要。盡量保持開放的溝通氣氛，鼓勵對手說出性愛喜惡，即使對手表現害羞，欲言又止，也要耐心地慢慢聆聽。對方可能會說出很狂野，令妳全完不能接受的想法，亦請妳不要表現出很厭惡的表情，這只會使對方失去對妳說出心底渴望的勇氣。只要向她表達，妳未必喜歡這類型的性愛就可以了。(但亦不防再想想，自己會不會有興趣一試呢！) </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">想到應該會有人問，性愛這東西，可以怎樣開口說呢？選場合很重要。我通常都會找一些藉口，例如看一些有性愛場面的電影，之後大家可以傾
劇情甚麼的，便可以順勢打開性愛的話題；又或者是大家在深宵 ICQ 的時候也是很好的時機，可以由一些較為不貼身的話題開始說，例如甚麼「妳覺得
G 是不是都很被動？」、「如果對方不給脫衣服，會不會覺得很難受？」當然，這最適合是大家已有一定程度的互相吸引的時候，有點想發展親密關係的默契。話題打開了之後，需要多多留意對方的反應，好好發揮了，使自己能夠說出想要的，也要聆聽對方的。如果對方可以接受，內容可以多一點挑逗的情感，不但能增加大家的了解，亦可以引起大家的性趣呢！ </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">即使已開始發展性愛關係，這樣的交談還是需要的，尤其是想嘗嘗一些新東西時，充分的溝通，大可避免傷害到大家的感情。 </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">要是妳連自己的性愛喜惡也不清楚，那可以怎辦？要說甚麼？那妳還說那麼多，妳的身體正在等待妳去發掘呢！坐言起行吧！ </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">ORALS <br>
Talking, Licking, Kissing and Probing <br>
All of the above are vitally important to the success
of a lesbian relationship. </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">TALKING <br>
Talking, of course is the first line of communication
and there should always be an open ear to what
your lover has to say. Once communication is closed,
the relationship is pretty much over if neither
of you are willing to sit down and talk. <br>
The way I end relationships is when I stop talking.
Doing so is a good indication that you don't want
to have anything else to do with each other. </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">Talking is also the way to get the things you want
in the relationship. If you like massages, let her
know it. If you love getting or giving oral, tell
her. Your girl is not a psychic, so don't treat her
like one. Always have your feelings and desires out
in the open, it's the only way that she will know
what you need in an interactive relationship. <br>
Of course, this does not mean that you should be
demanding, and you won't always get what you want.
But talking keeps the communication flowing freely,
which is the <br>
best kind of relationship to have. </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">LICKING <br>
Licking is important because it feels so good to
both of you, and instead of consulting manuals
and asking for advice on how to lick your girl,
you should instead ASK HER! For only she knows
what feels good to her. You can start by something
simple like licking her neck and see if it turns
her on or just irritates her. Some girls like their
fingers licked, and of course, who doesn't like
her vagina licked? </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">KISSING <br>
Kissing is the greatest way to communicate feelings
of endearment. I remember that at one time I had
a very cold female lover. Her friend came to visit
our job one day and when she hugged me she kissed
my neck! I could not believe that she had been
so forward, but I will tell you that this is one
kiss I will never forget! </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">Kissing on the mouth is the best erotic stimulation
to most women, so you should learn the art of kissing
if you want to kiss the girl just right. While manuals
are great as a starting point, I find that all women
like to be kissed differently, and I usually start
out just probing her lips, and the way she responds
lets me know how she likes to be kissed. For instance,
if I move in to kiss her and she opens her lips but
does not extend her tongue, then she's waiting for
me to do it, and I do. If she puts her lips to mine
first I let her take the control at that time to
see what she's about. Most lesbians like to be aggressive
sometimes, but they also like their lover to be so,
too. </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">PROBING <br>
Probing is the way to search for those sensitive
spots that neither you nor your lover knew she
has. Taking your tongue into places where it has
not been before can really excite a sexual encounter. </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">Also, letting her probe you is a great way to bring
out feelings in you that you did not know you had.
You are both full of nerves and sensitive feelings
and you can't possibly know all of them. Probing
for sex and excitement can keep your relationship
a hot one! </font></p>
<p><font size="+1">原載於《女女情事•生活•吹水工作坊研習手冊》</font></p>
<p><font size="-1">( http://www.leslovestudy.com 下一站彩虹)</font></p> </td>
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